'The guy I had been talking to didn't know I was a virgin, and I didn't tell him because I was afraid it would scare him off.' Kylie was 19 when she lost her virginity and said it happened during a 'Netflix and chill situation' which she later felt guilty about. It was completely unplanned, but I've never regretted it. His friend was asleep in his hotel room, so we did it on the balcony. 'I was on senior week, and I was hanging out with the boy I liked. Still friends: Kelsey still talks to the guy she lost her virginity to on a hotel balcony (stock image)Īnd for Kelsey, her first time was unplanned but an experience she doesn't regret at all. 'We went to a diner the next morning for breakfast and texted my best friend group chat the link to Lonely's Island's 'I Just Had Sex,' and I think they were more excited about it than me to be honest.' It wasn't awkward or weird, and it wasn't this special magical moment either.' He made me feel comfortable and respected, so one night, I went over and we had sex. 'I wasn't 'in love' or whatever, but I guess I never expected to be. Tiffany wasn't in love the first time she had sex but that was something she had expected beforehand. There's less subconscious pressure, and you'll learn what feels good for you.' 'In the next weeks I learned that our culture obsesses about making the first time perfect, but chances are that the second, third, fourth, etc. Afterwards, I was relieved that I'd finally gotten it over with, and didn't know if I would ever think sex was fun.' 'I was scared that sex would hurt, and that fear made me more tense, so even though I was happy to be sharing that intimacy with my partner, I couldn't really relax and it hurt a bit. I had waited to have sex because I wanted my first time to be with someone that cared about me and would be around to share not just the physical act, but the emotions that came with it as well.' She said: 'I was almost 21, I was (finally) in a relationship with a guy I was crazy about, and I knew I was as ready as I'd ever be. He made me feel better about the experience, and we are still together two and a half years later.'įor Tori, her first time was with someone she was 'crazy about' and happened when knew she was ready. 'He was so understanding and he said it was fine and that he wanted me to be okay, and that we didn't have to continue. I felt a little ashamed and embarrassed because I imagined something different and I thought he was disappointed in the experience.' 'He told me to relax and that we didn't have to continue if I didn't want to, but I did.
At the time, I was blinded by my love, so I chose to look past that.'įor other girls like Katie, their first time was shared with someone who cared about how they were feeling. 'I think I would have enjoyed it more if he had checked in with me to see if my needs were being met, which they weren't. 'He kept his face buried in my shoulder/neck the whole time and asked if I was okay once during, which I thought was kind of inconsiderate.' She said: 'He knew I was a virgin and for some reason, I had this expectation of it being magical, which in all honesty, it wasn't. Hafeezah expected her first time to be magical and told Seventeen that it would have been more enjoyable if the guy involved was more considerate. Blinded by love: Young women share the time they lost their virginity including Hafeezah who said she would have enjoyed losing her virginity if he had 'checked in' on her (stock image)
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